Hi, my name is Yommy Ayilara. I`m a feminist. I am a law student and a blogger. I have a passion for womens right. Yes, I know there`s a huge problem in the society and I look forward to writing about them and explaining possible solutions for the girlsssssssss. I need you all to read up and leave comments. This is like an advocacy, yeah! Like a call, a call to any oppressed, weak or deprived woman out there.
I believe words go a long way, personally. So many women out there are strong deep down and I know it, some just need the right words of encouragement to show them ; `yes girl`! I see you!
Okayyyy , people close to me know that I am a very outspoken and blunt girl. And yesss! I talk a lot for the girlssss, like the words flow, I always have something to contribute and I am always ready to defend girlllllls! And trust me to always win( lawyers skills, lolllll! *wink*). 
Andddd , so that I won`t rant how I feel to my friends and family alone, here is a blog for you!

Aims : 3R`s 
Respect , Recognition and Realization.
Respect : I used to think society has refused to respect women, not until I did some research, spoke to a number of women and realized that a number of women do not think they deserve to be respected. I mean there are a lot of shallow minded women out there who do not want to think outside the box. This is totally not their fault, I blame it on the society and their general upbringing.
Hey girls! Let`s get that respect we deserve!
Recognition : this is another issue, I personally think our society has just refused to recognize the existence of women generally, bothering on our ability, capacity, usefulness and strength. Okay , I am a Nigerian, and by society, I mean `Nigeria` kindaa! Butttt! This is like a `whole world` thing and I just don`t wanna be selfish , so yes! 
Recognition all over the world, shall we !
Realization : it saddens my heart that a lot of women and I mean a whole lotttt do not want to become anything. Very few wants to work, own a company, do this and do that! Most women just want to remain where they are, no work , totally dependent and this does not help in any way. I mean as a human, you should be responsible for yourself. Girllll , you should have dreams, plan your future, contribute to the economy, contribute in the political affairs of your state, contribute in the educational sector and be blunt dear, speak up! 
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And yesssss. Speak up, girl! Society is gonna chill!
I want to help a girl speak up today, I want to ensure that girls are respected, recognized and are exposed to their realization. So, like my aims, it`s the 3R`s – Respect , Recognition and Realization andddd of course, for the girlsss!
Okayyyy , I am not a boring person ( I think, lol). Anyway, I am gonna keep my write ups short and interesting so just take a second to like and comment. I talk a lot, so let`s chat. Tell a friend to tell a friend to speak up!
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Hey girl, your pain will become your power. You have dreams, chase them! Speak up, girl!


  1. The best feminist I know.. amazing

  2. Smart Tommy, your voice will go places.

  3. Hi Tommy. I am radio broadcaster in South Africa and would love to invite you for an interview. Please may I have your email address.

    1. Hey, Thank you ❤️. - yommyayilara@gmail.com